Reality Check My Life | Table Talk | Not Everyone Gets a Front-Row Seat

There’s a belief many sensitive people carry quietly:

If someone matters, they should have access.

In this episode of Table Talk, Gin gently dismantles that belief — and offers a steadier truth: proximity is not a moral issue. It’s a design decision.

This conversation reframes boundaries not as rejection or failure, but as architecture — the intentional structuring of relational space so care can remain sustainable.

Inside this episode:

• How closeness became moralized

• Why lineage-sensitive people struggle most with relational guilt

• The difference between care and proximity

• Why “everyone close” is a burnout model

• The front-row metaphor — and how to right-size access

• How boundaries protect connection instead of diminishing it

This episode offers relief for anyone who has been over-accessible, over-explaining, or carrying relational weight that was never theirs to hold.

This is Table Talk: conversations about living coherently, where boundaries are a form of respect and proximity is chosen — not owed.