Welcome back, Rebel Manifestors.
You know the deal: we are not here to play small. We’re here to tear up old blueprints, crank the volume on our soul’s desires, and design a life that feels like our own damn concert.
And today? We’re talking about what happens when the life you’re living doesn’t actually feel like yours. When your setlist — your routines, your roles, your responsibilities — was written for someone else’s show (aka life).

Have you ever looked around at your life and thought:
“This isn't what I want.”

Maybe it's not bad. Maybe it’s even good on paper.
But it doesn’t feel like you.
That, right there, is your invitation.
Not to panic. Not to shame yourself.
But to change the setlist.

Let’s talk about what that even means.
In this episode, I walk you through:

• What a “life setlist” is — and why you might be performing someone else’s.

• The “Good Girl” programming so many of us are carrying.

• Four key signs that you’re stuck in someone else’s setlist.

• Why changing your mind is not flakiness — it’s evolution.

• And how to start burning down what no longer fits, without guilt or apology.

And yes — we use music as the metaphor. Because even if you’re not a musician (I’m not either), you have a soundtrack. You have a rhythm. And it might be time to remix it.

This episode is about radical self-honesty without shame.
Because you can’t write a new setlist if you don’t even realize the old one is draining you.

Here’s what I want you to remember:

✨ You can change your mind.
✨ You’re not here to perform your life. You’re here to live it.
✨ You’re not selfish for wanting more — you’re awake.

Start by asking:

• Whose approval am I trying to earn?

• Which roles or labels no longer fit?

• What would my dream setlist feel like on stage, every night of my life?

And if you need a micro-moment of joy?
Keep some bubbles in your bag. (Yes, really.)
Fun doesn’t have to be earned. It just has to be invited back in.

If this episode stirred something in you — a memory, a frustration, or a fire — I want you to write it down.
Let that be your first note in the new song you’re writing for yourself.

🎧 And if you’re craving support in rewriting your setlist, DM me. My inbox is always open.

Tag me @patidiaz_rebelmanifestors, share the episode, and let’s help more women walk off someone else’s stage and into their own spotlight.

Until next time —
Keep burning the rulebooks and building the life that actually sounds like you.

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