This week on Relatable Wisdom, I had the absolute pleasure of chatting with Robert B Cide Cardillo, also known as Bside—a rapper and author whose journey is the definition of resilience and reinvention. Robert shared not just one, but two powerful quotes that have shaped his outlook: “It’s a great life if you don’t weaken,” a family mantra tattooed on his arm, and “The only way to separate the good from the great is to see who’s around after the toll time takes,” a line from his own music. We dig deep into how these philosophies kept him going after a life-changing diagnosis of multiple sclerosis, fueling his creativity and leading to his memoir, Myelin My Shoes. Robert’s honesty about staying strong through setbacks and the value of persistence will light a fire for anyone chasing big dreams, facing tough days, or needing a reminder to focus on their goals. If you’re looking for timeless wisdom, real talk, and a dose of inspiration to keep persevering, this episode is for you.
Connect With Robert B Cide Cardillo
Website: https://b-cide.com
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Chapters
00:00 Introduction and Welcome
00:38 Robert’s Background and Passions
01:02 Favorite Quotes and Meanings
01:34 Unpacking “Good” Versus “Great”
02:41 The Song Behind the Quote
03:17 Time, Commitment, and Success
04:48 Lessons From the Music Scene
06:09 How The Quotes Shape Life
06:47 When Staying Positive Is Difficult
08:02 Motivational Daily Practices
08:27 Outlasting Others in Music
09:31 Listener Takeaways and Tips
10:15 New Lessons From Writing
11:38 Behind Robert’s Memoir
12:36 Audiobook and Soundtrack
12:50 Final Words of Advice
14:03 Where to Find Robert
14:31 Show Closing and Reflections