In this episode of Relatable Wisdom, I had an incredible conversation with Brian Seim, founder of Kingdom Family Leader, software engineer, and Christian life coach. Brian vulnerably shared how the classic scripture, "Thy word is a lamp unto my feet and a light unto my path" (Psalm 119:105), became a guiding force in his transformation from outward achievement to inner fulfillment. We dove deep into Brian's journey—how, despite appearing successful as a ski coach, he wrestled with isolation and personal struggles until the power of authentic community and open brotherhood changed everything. Brian's story is a reminder that true growth and healing happen in trusted relationships, not in hiding or perfection. He offered invaluable advice about reaching out, shedding the mask, and taking actionable steps—starting by blessing ourselves so we can better serve those around us. If you’re looking for wisdom on breaking free from isolation and building a life of meaning, this episode is for you.
Connect With Brian Seim
Website: https://kingdomfamilyleader.com
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Chapters
00:00 Introduction and Welcome
00:31 Meet Brian Seim
00:47 Favorite Quote From Scripture
01:15 The Power of Memorizing By Choice
01:51 Understanding "A Lamp Unto My Feet"
02:44 Why This Verse Resonates
03:17 Turning Point and Needing Change
03:31 The Kingdom Family Leader Movement
04:34 Years of Coaching and Masterminding
05:13 Transformations Through Community
05:51 Behind the Mask—Struggles and Baggage
07:07 The Confrontation That Sparked Change
07:37 Recovery and Owning The Struggles
08:32 Best Advice Given and Received
10:13 Action Steps You Can Take Today
11:19 How to Connect and Take the Next Step
12:07 The Importance of Men’s Groups
12:45 Closing Thoughts and Goodbye