What does it really mean to grow up, especially in a world that often lacks structure? In this deep and reflective episode, Remo and Allar talk about the role military service played in shaping them—not just as soldiers, but as men. They reflect on childhoods filled with mischief, absent parenting, and early video game obsessions, and how that chaos eventually gave way to discipline through conscription and military life. Through brutal training, elite selection processes, and years of service, both men learned hard lessons about self-discipline, teamwork, and the necessity of failure. They also discuss how mentorship, accountability, and humility became crucial to their personal growth. Whether you’re struggling to find direction or seeking to build mental toughness, this episode offers valuable insights on becoming your best self through adversity.Join the conversation on Instagram: @remopodcast