Today, we have Tom in the studio to discuss his experience with divorce. Tom has gone through two divorces and has learned some valuable lessons. In this episode, Tom and the host, Per, discuss the importance of being kind and compassionate during a divorce and how it can make the process less destructive for everyone involved.

Tom shares a story from his first divorce, where his friend helped him see that there was a better way to handle the situation. He learned that being angry and hostile only made things worse and ultimately cost him a lot of money. 

Per relates to Tom's story and shares that he made the mistake of hiring a hostile lawyer in his divorce. He learned that this only worsened the situation and ultimately cost him a lot of money.

Both Tom and Per agree that it's essential to be kind and compassionate during a divorce. They believe that this can help to make the process less destructive and ultimately lead to a better outcome for everyone involved.