If you've ever felt your gut twist during a training session...
If you've ever stayed quiet while your horse was pushed too far…
If you've ever walked away wondering, “Was that really okay?” — this episode is for you.

In this deeply honest conversation, Steffi shares the nervous system impact of witnessing harsh training methods, why so many horse owners go into shutdown when their instincts are ignored, and how to reclaim your voice as an advocate — even in the face of so-called “professionals.”

Whether you're a horse owner, equine professional, or simply someone committed to ethical horsemanship, this episode is a reminder that:

👉 Trainers should make both you and your horse feel safe, seen, and heard.
👉 You are allowed to say no.
👉 You are your horse’s voice — not just their handler.

I also give you some green flags to look out for in your trainer!

Ready to go deeper?

Explore our work inside the Holistic Horsemanship Academy — where your nervous system and your horse’s are both honoured.

Learn more: https://scienceforsoundness.thinkific.com/bundles/HHA

Or join us for a beautiful experience through the horse-human bond with A Journey to Self:
https://scienceforsoundness.com/a-journey-to-self

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