In this episode of Semua Kita we hear more about Garry's first boy crush, how he gradually came to the realization that he was gay and what exploring a relationship with someone who was an equal novice was like.Eventually, Garry found a new chosen family in a bar in Chinatown called Niche, where he observed how the community organized itself into one providing care and support under the glamorous lights of Singapore's drag nightlife. The ability to draw from local entertainment styles like getai gave drag here its own unique style. But first, to makes sense of his unfamiliar feelings, a teenage Garry turned to the then new internet for answers. Other subscription, listening and following options here: ⁠⁠⁠https://bit.ly/m/semuakita⁠ ⁠⁠#queer #LGBTQ #oralhistory #singapore