In this thought-provoking episode, we are joined by a special guest co-host, DDS Dodson-Smith, a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist. Together, we delve into the groundbreaking ideas and themes from the book "Refusing Compulsory Sexuality: A Black Asexual Lens on Our Sex-Obsessed Culture" by Sherronda Brown. Brown's work challenges conventional definitions of asexuality, highlighting the complexity and fluidity of the ace spectrum.We begin by exploring Brown's perspective that asexuality is not about a "lack" but rather a relationship to sex that deviates from society's normative views. During the episode, we have the privilege of interviewing two remarkable individuals at different stages of their Ace journey. Through candid and heartfelt conversations, we delve into their identities within the Ace spectrum, how they navigate cultural experiences in a sex-obsessed world, and their unique perspectives on seeking relationships and handling family dynamics. We also address the realities of traumas experienced by individuals on the ace spectrum, exploring the intricacies of vulnerability and resilience.This episode challenges preconceived notions, encourages empathy, and invites listeners to engage with a diverse array of experiences within the Ace spectrum. Together, we can create a world where everyone's identity is embraced and celebrated.