Things so not end up sour they start sour. ( a bad foundation) 1. Self IMAGE Self identity Self image Self determination Who do you think and say you are? * Be significant by yourself * Low opinion about self is not modesty but self destruction. * First thing that get affected first by the devil is your image. * Lack of self image is a root of insecurity 2. Gift of single hood *Functionality and abilities . Gen 1:26 created in our likeness, You function like God.* *Marriage should come as a disruption of a well lived successful, purposeful single life and not a rescue mission of a lonely miserable life. 3. Gift of work Gen 2: 15 to dress it and to keep it. * Marriage needs money by itself. * Work teaches you to be -Creative , improve, produce, make better, increase, * Marriage is team work * Marriage teaches you to be accountability * Work teaches us excellence * Customer service Listen and do satisfy your customer. * My partner is my customer, listen to feedback. * Efficiency is also leant from work * Human relations… work teaches you how to work and thrive with other human beings * Work teaches you productivity 4. Gift of the presence and the word of God. * Gen 2:7 Adam was a man of God. * Adam was living under an open heaven 5. Gift of space Appreciate your space, to learn boundaries Gen 2:8 Space trains you about -Territory, authority, management of resources, and discipline. 6. Name * Adam was given a name before a woman. * The gift of a name * The power and honour of your name. * Reputation pride history The gift of sanctity * brand new, fresh, unused, unadulterated, wrapped and sealed for delivery * Adam knew no woman, saw none, and lusted non. Purity and competition Purity against masturbation Pornography Fornication/ adultery