"If I seem mean when I tell you no, just know that I am being very kind to myself." In this episode, I talk about a trend I have been floating on social media, the idea that setting boundaries, advocating for oneself, being kind to yourself, may have the added flavor to it that somehow you are being mean. To who exactly? Are ingrained responses we have that powerful as to manifest in worrying about are we being mean by putting our own mental and physical health first? Sometimes it...
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"If I seem mean when I tell you no, just know that I am being very kind to myself." In this episode, I talk about a trend I have been floating on social media, the idea that setting boundaries, advocating for oneself, being kind to yourself, may have the added flavor to it that somehow you are being mean. To who exactly? Are ingrained responses we have that powerful as to manifest in worrying about are we being mean by putting our own mental and physical health first? Sometimes it...
She Speaks with Shara - Episode #13 - The Body Always Knows
She Speaks with Shara
43 minutes
2 weeks ago
She Speaks with Shara - Episode #13 - The Body Always Knows
"Learn to listen to you body, whatever that means to you." Did you know your body keeps score? I didn't, until mine started deciding to show me the effects of what that score was. All the hurt, the trauma, the abuse. Your brain can do what it wants with memories and you can work hard to repress them, move them, reframe them, but parts if it will stay trapped in your body in various ways (hence the somatic healing discussion in episode #11). Until you literally grind to a stop. "I still ...
She Speaks with Shara
"If I seem mean when I tell you no, just know that I am being very kind to myself." In this episode, I talk about a trend I have been floating on social media, the idea that setting boundaries, advocating for oneself, being kind to yourself, may have the added flavor to it that somehow you are being mean. To who exactly? Are ingrained responses we have that powerful as to manifest in worrying about are we being mean by putting our own mental and physical health first? Sometimes it...