We explore how surrender becomes strength after heartbreak and narcissistic abuse, reframing breakups as successful chapters when they catalyze growth. Practical steps, grounded stories, and Kute Blackson’s insights guide a path from running to resting in self-trust. • using the serenity prayer and mantra to anchor peace • shifting from control to acceptance • five stages of grief applied to toxic dynamics • nonengagement and boundaries as protection • redefining relationship success by growth • small steps that compound into freedom • lessons from Tina Turner and Dolly Parton • moving from searching to self love and trust • choosing optional suffering by aligning with reality Looking for love, my brand new book, Shod It Love, is out now. You can grab your copy today on Amazon If you'd like to stay connected, get exclusive updates, and be the first to hear about Shod It Love live single events, join the mailing list at shot at lovebook.com Don't miss your chance to change the way you see love and yourself