in our first episode together, we're jumping right to the good stuff! if you've kept up with me on tiktok for long enough, you'll know i've been in different relationships over the years. you might've seen my ex and i make some videos together.... maybe you've seen my girlfriend and i make some videos with my ex  too.... some people think it's funny, some people think it's confusing, and others think it's toxic. within the queer community, and especially for queer women, the dynamics between ex lovers are known for being unusual. whether you've turned an ex to a bestie, or like to keep 'em blocked and deleted, we're getting into it - here's my take.