Feeling lost at the crossroads of love and doubt? Subscribe now! This podcast is your roadmap. Join me, your host Whitney Sloan, as we jump into the messy, real, and often hilarious world of relationships in your 30s and 40s.
Whether you're:
- Questioning if your marriage is a "happily ever after" or a "happily ever maybe"
- Wondering if divorce is the answer, but terrified of starting over
- Picking up the pieces after a breakup and rebuilding your confidence
- Craving a life that feels passionate, fulfilling, and authentically YOU
This is your space.
We'll untangle the emotional knots of:
- Am I unhappy or just used to it? Figuring out if your relationship needs a spark or a goodbye
- Asking yourself, ‘Is this it?’, ‘Is this enough?’, and ‘How do you know…?’
- Shame. Why we feel it in this process, what we can do to lessen it, and defining what success really is in a long term relationship (outside of cultural norms)
- Divorce without losing your mind: Practical tips, legal know-how, and emotional support for navigating the split
- Dating in your 30s/40s: From awkward first encounters to queen energy confidence, we'll embrace the joys and challenges
- Co-parenting like a boss: Strategies for raising amazing kids across two households
- Finding your purpose after divorce: Reclaiming your independence, rediscovering your passions, and building a life you love
This isn't just about divorce. It's about self-discovery, sisterhood, and claiming your power.
We'll also explore:
- Mom guilt? We've all got it. Juggling motherhood, careers, and relationships without losing yourself
- Financial independence for women: Building wealth and security in your own name
- Stress management for busy women: Because let's face it, life is a rollercoaster
With expert guests, relatable stories, and a healthy dose of humor, we'll guide you through the in-between, one step at a time.
Subscribe now and let's rewrite the rules together.
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Feeling lost at the crossroads of love and doubt? Subscribe now! This podcast is your roadmap. Join me, your host Whitney Sloan, as we jump into the messy, real, and often hilarious world of relationships in your 30s and 40s.
Whether you're:
- Questioning if your marriage is a "happily ever after" or a "happily ever maybe"
- Wondering if divorce is the answer, but terrified of starting over
- Picking up the pieces after a breakup and rebuilding your confidence
- Craving a life that feels passionate, fulfilling, and authentically YOU
This is your space.
We'll untangle the emotional knots of:
- Am I unhappy or just used to it? Figuring out if your relationship needs a spark or a goodbye
- Asking yourself, ‘Is this it?’, ‘Is this enough?’, and ‘How do you know…?’
- Shame. Why we feel it in this process, what we can do to lessen it, and defining what success really is in a long term relationship (outside of cultural norms)
- Divorce without losing your mind: Practical tips, legal know-how, and emotional support for navigating the split
- Dating in your 30s/40s: From awkward first encounters to queen energy confidence, we'll embrace the joys and challenges
- Co-parenting like a boss: Strategies for raising amazing kids across two households
- Finding your purpose after divorce: Reclaiming your independence, rediscovering your passions, and building a life you love
This isn't just about divorce. It's about self-discovery, sisterhood, and claiming your power.
We'll also explore:
- Mom guilt? We've all got it. Juggling motherhood, careers, and relationships without losing yourself
- Financial independence for women: Building wealth and security in your own name
- Stress management for busy women: Because let's face it, life is a rollercoaster
With expert guests, relatable stories, and a healthy dose of humor, we'll guide you through the in-between, one step at a time.
Subscribe now and let's rewrite the rules together.
Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Unfulfilled in your marriage but terrified of divorce? You're not alone. In this deeply personal 1st episode of Should I Stay or Should Go, host Whitney Sloan explores her journey from marriage and raising children, through the challenges of divorce, to ultimately helping others navigate similar paths through the making of this podcast. This episode explores the messiness of feeling lost and the possibility that divorce can be a positive step towards happiness and self-discovery. Whitney helps you untangle the confusion of societal pressures and makes space to see new possibilities.
- Breaking free from the "shoulds" of marriage
- Redefining success in relationships
- Finding your voice and purpose after separation
- Building a support system and embracing the journey
If you're contemplating, “Should I stay or should I go?", this episode is a must-listen. Let's rewrite the script on love, life, and finding yourself. Because life’s too short for, “I don’t know.”
Our favourite quotable moments:
“It wasn't black and white for me. I had loved my husband and our relationship. I thought I was one of the lucky ones."
"The question was not whether my life was good enough or whether he was good enough. It's whether it was enough for me.”
"Why do people always say, ‘Oh my God, I'm so sorry,’ when they hear you're divorced? This could be the absolute best thing that has ever happened to someone."
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Don't let her American accent fool you; Whitney Sloan has called Melbourne, Australia home for over 20 years. Mom of 3, with a rambunctious pup named Tux, Whitney finds peace in the ocean – swimming, connecting, and becoming the best version of herself. Deep conversations and genuine connections fuel her. Join Whitney's supportive community for women at life's crossroads, where open communication paves the way to rewrite your story.
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