Feeling lost at the crossroads of love and doubt? Subscribe now! This podcast is your roadmap. Join me, your host Whitney Sloan, as we jump into the messy, real, and often hilarious world of relationships in your 30s and 40s.
Whether you're:
- Questioning if your marriage is a "happily ever after" or a "happily ever maybe"
- Wondering if divorce is the answer, but terrified of starting over
- Picking up the pieces after a breakup and rebuilding your confidence
- Craving a life that feels passionate, fulfilling, and authentically YOU
This is your space.
We'll untangle the emotional knots of:
- Am I unhappy or just used to it? Figuring out if your relationship needs a spark or a goodbye
- Asking yourself, ‘Is this it?’, ‘Is this enough?’, and ‘How do you know…?’
- Shame. Why we feel it in this process, what we can do to lessen it, and defining what success really is in a long term relationship (outside of cultural norms)
- Divorce without losing your mind: Practical tips, legal know-how, and emotional support for navigating the split
- Dating in your 30s/40s: From awkward first encounters to queen energy confidence, we'll embrace the joys and challenges
- Co-parenting like a boss: Strategies for raising amazing kids across two households
- Finding your purpose after divorce: Reclaiming your independence, rediscovering your passions, and building a life you love
This isn't just about divorce. It's about self-discovery, sisterhood, and claiming your power.
We'll also explore:
- Mom guilt? We've all got it. Juggling motherhood, careers, and relationships without losing yourself
- Financial independence for women: Building wealth and security in your own name
- Stress management for busy women: Because let's face it, life is a rollercoaster
With expert guests, relatable stories, and a healthy dose of humor, we'll guide you through the in-between, one step at a time.
Subscribe now and let's rewrite the rules together.
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Feeling lost at the crossroads of love and doubt? Subscribe now! This podcast is your roadmap. Join me, your host Whitney Sloan, as we jump into the messy, real, and often hilarious world of relationships in your 30s and 40s.
Whether you're:
- Questioning if your marriage is a "happily ever after" or a "happily ever maybe"
- Wondering if divorce is the answer, but terrified of starting over
- Picking up the pieces after a breakup and rebuilding your confidence
- Craving a life that feels passionate, fulfilling, and authentically YOU
This is your space.
We'll untangle the emotional knots of:
- Am I unhappy or just used to it? Figuring out if your relationship needs a spark or a goodbye
- Asking yourself, ‘Is this it?’, ‘Is this enough?’, and ‘How do you know…?’
- Shame. Why we feel it in this process, what we can do to lessen it, and defining what success really is in a long term relationship (outside of cultural norms)
- Divorce without losing your mind: Practical tips, legal know-how, and emotional support for navigating the split
- Dating in your 30s/40s: From awkward first encounters to queen energy confidence, we'll embrace the joys and challenges
- Co-parenting like a boss: Strategies for raising amazing kids across two households
- Finding your purpose after divorce: Reclaiming your independence, rediscovering your passions, and building a life you love
This isn't just about divorce. It's about self-discovery, sisterhood, and claiming your power.
We'll also explore:
- Mom guilt? We've all got it. Juggling motherhood, careers, and relationships without losing yourself
- Financial independence for women: Building wealth and security in your own name
- Stress management for busy women: Because let's face it, life is a rollercoaster
With expert guests, relatable stories, and a healthy dose of humor, we'll guide you through the in-between, one step at a time.
Subscribe now and let's rewrite the rules together.
Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Have you ever wondered how personal growth can be influenced by major life changes such as separation? In this episode, Joshua Bourke, a dedicated teacher, an inspiring educator, and a passionate coach, shares his journey. He provides a candid look into an individual’s journey of self-discovery, personal growth, and the challenges of co-parenting following a separation.
Let's explore:
- The challenges and rewards of co-parenting
- The impact of separation on personal growth
- The power of self-reflection in personal development
If you're contemplating, “Should I stay or should I go?", this episode is a must-listen. Let's rewrite the script on love, life, and finding yourself. Because life’s too short for, “I don’t know.”
Our favourite quotable moments:
“Look at yourself first. If you make that decision, there is such positivity that comes from that.” - Josh
“I still deal with a lot of guilt and shame and tough moments and, and I think it's important to normalise that side of it, too.” - Whitney
“I’m always their dad, whether they’re with me or with [my ex], I’m always their dad.” - Josh
“Any kind of resentment in parenting just lifted as soon as I was separated. “ - Whitney
Resources:
Kintsugi by Tomas Navarro
The Way of The Superior Man by David Deida
The 5am Club by Robin Sharma
Instagram - @bourkey85
LinkedIn - Joshua Bourke
Because life’s too short for ‘I don’t know’ - join the supportive community now.
Stay longer - visit the Should I Stay website.
About Guest:
Joshua Bourke, a dedicated 38-year-old father of three, wears many hats in his dynamic life. As the assistant principal at Southmoor Primary School, he's deeply committed to shaping young minds. Yet, his influence extends beyond academics, as the head coach at Beaumaris Football Club, where he instils values of teamwork and resilience. Joshua is also the co-owner of BD Sports, channelling his passion for sports into community initiatives. Despite his busy schedule, he prioritises family, nurturing his daughter and his energetic twins. Joshua epitomises dedication, leadership, and family values.
About Your Host:
Don't let her American accent fool you; Whitney Sloan has called Melbourne, Australia home for over 20 years. Mom of 3, with a rambunctious pup named Tux, Whitney finds peace in the ocean – swimming, connecting, and becoming the best version of herself. Deep conversations and genuine connections fuel her. Join Whitney's supportive community for women at life's crossroads, where open communication paves the way to rewrite your story.
This podcast is produced by Brave Moon Podcasts.
Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.