On this episode, I speak with Dr. Tiyahri. She so graciously shares with us her story of growing up in the church. Being married young, in what she feels was an arranged marriage to strategically leaving her husband after 15 years. Why did she leave? Why does she feel the marriage was arranged? What was she strategic about and how? Let's talk.
- Intro: Did anyone have a conversation with her about what makes a healthy relationship vs. Unhealthy in the church before she got married?
- 6:13 We didn't even know to ask. Growing up on Bel-Air and the Huxtables and bridge we didn't know we needed to close.
- 8:49 How to keep your husband happy (what she heard from the church).
- 14:27 Why she felt she was in an arranged marriage.
- 25:30 Was she tired being his wife and wife of a minister?
- 37:20 Did she blame herself or him stepping outside of the marriage?
- 40:09 Church just taught me to cry out and leave it on the alter but therapy taught me...
- 48:24 What is a healthy marriage to her and is she dating?
- 52:50 In her professional opinion what are green flags? And It's ok to change your mind.
You can find Tiyahri on Instagram here.
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