This episode explores two pivotal encounters as Jacob returns to Canaan. The first is his struggle with the angel, where he asks for a blessing, signaling his desire for more than just victory. The second is with Esau, two decades after their last conflicted encounter, where Jacob insists that his brother accept his gifts as a peace offering. Using John Gottman’s concept of 'repair attempts', we’ll delve into how Jacob’s actions align with timeless principles of seeking interpersonal harmony, especially before moving on. We’ll also see how the Torah uses the Hebrew word 'Shalem' (whole, complete) to capture Jacob’s journey towards true peace and inner resolution, just before new challenges arrive.