Chastity kink and how to introduce it your partner

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Soul Kink Therapy

Emily Letts

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Soul Kink Therapy, hosted by Therapeutic Kink Specialist Emily Letts, welcomes kinky guests to explore their desires, patterns, and fetishes as pathways to healing and liberation. Turn your fetish into freedom.

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Chastity kink and how to introduce it your partner

Soul Kink Therapy

55 minutes

1 month ago

Chastity kink and how to introduce it your partner

How do you introduce chastity to your partner without them "running for the hills"? For "Alan," a longtime chastity enthusiast, this conversation has been a series of "crashes and burns."

He'd come in like a "bull in a china shop," treat his partner as a "kink dispenser," or get lost in fantasy vs. reality

In this episode of Soul Kink Therapy, we discover the real reason his attempts fail: he's only telling half the story

Using an Internal Family Systems (IFS) process, we uncover the core wound behind his desire: a deep-seated fear of being "invisible."

We then role-play the wrong way (and the right way) to have this conversation, moving from manipulation to authentic, vulnerable devotion.

This is a masterclass in kink communication, how to ask a partner to be your keyholder, and the "Kink Paraphrasing" technique.

0:00 - Intro: Kink, Devotion & Liberation1:00 - Welcome Alan: How to Introduce Chastity to a Partner2:20 - Alan's Reframe: Chastity as a "Gift"3:45 - Host Clarifies: "What is Chastity?" (The Cage & Key)5:10 - Alan's First Experience (His "Awakening")7:15 - "Am I Still a Guy to Want This?" (Internal Battles)8:30 - Chastity as a Tool for "Focus"9:30 - The Connection: "You Become Literally Devoted"10:45 - The Big Mistakes: "Bull in a China Shop"11:30 - The "Kink Dispenser" & "Fantasy vs. Reality"12:45 - Obsessing Over the Kink13:30 - "What Are You Chasing?"14:15 - IFS Process: "Internal Family Systems"15:30 - The "Bubbly" Creature: "It Wants to Be Noticed"17:00 - The Core Wound: "Fear of Being Invisible"20:00 - Alan's Reaction: "Tense"21:15 - Why You're Only Telling Half the Story (The Wound)22:30 - "It Lands Square in the Face"24:15 - Last Time He Introduced It25:40 - "If You Don't Share, It's Curtains" (The Most Important Rule)28:00 - Role-Play: Alan's (Bad) Attempt30:00 - Deconstructing the Bad Role-Play (It's a Performance)31:30 - "It's Manipulative"32:45 - The Barbed-Wire Fence Analogy (Protecting the Wound)34:30 - The "Gift" vs. "Transactional" (Serving vs. Controlling)37:00 - "You Neglect to See the Other Person"39:00 - The Good Role-Play: Emily's Example42:00 - The "Kink Paraphrasing" Technique44:00 - "Say the Words"45:00 - Letting the Other Person Have the Floor46:00 - Final Thoughts & Wrap-up48:00 - Final Blessing for Alan50:00 - That's It for Soul Kink Therapy51:00 - Pre-recorded Outro / Call to Action (Free Course)

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