Should women have to change their identities once they're married? Are her partners' parents, also her parents?

What do you think?

As a brown couple dealing with generations of family trauma and cultural expectations, we've talked about this multiple times off camera, and decided it was time to record it so we could share our opinions on this with you.

We know it sounds extreme, but someday we'll loop in our parents as well for this chat - until then, hopefully we are enough.