Are you a single woman over 40 and over your non-existent love life? Do you struggle to find lasting love with the right guy because you are drawn to unavailable guys, despite knowing deep down you are sabotaging yourself?
Hey, I’m Truly Eleanor, your host of the Stop Chasing Unavailable Guys podcast. I’m an Intuitive Dating Coach who found Mr. Right in my 40s after breaking my pattern of attracting unavailable guys on repeat and you can too! This podcast was born from years of successfully coaching women worldwide out of the same patterns I was stuck in. My mission is to help single women over 40 find the fastest path to Mr. Right without wasting time on UGs (unavailable guys).
In season 1, we’ll focus on effective tools to trust your intuition and break the pattern of chasing after love. I’ll share empowering dating tips, advice to avoid, and how to cut through the BS.
X No complicated, inauthentic phrases or scripts to “keep a guy’s interest”
X No talk of getting into your Divine Feminine to find love
X No advice that focuses on what guys need from you
Yes to feeling inspired Yes to being your true self in love and life!
Yes to trusting yourself and listening to your intuition!
When I’m not inspiring women to find love after 40, you can find me having a laughing fit with the love of my life, baking my heart out in the kitchen or owning my GenX ways: metallic eyeshadow and my old school journal! If you’re ready to get take the first step, grab my free dating guide at https://trulyeleanor.com/datingapps
Love is closer than you think! xo Eleanor
Are you a single woman over 40 and over your non-existent love life? Do you struggle to find lasting love with the right guy because you are drawn to unavailable guys, despite knowing deep down you are sabotaging yourself?
Hey, I’m Truly Eleanor, your host of the Stop Chasing Unavailable Guys podcast. I’m an Intuitive Dating Coach who found Mr. Right in my 40s after breaking my pattern of attracting unavailable guys on repeat and you can too! This podcast was born from years of successfully coaching women worldwide out of the same patterns I was stuck in. My mission is to help single women over 40 find the fastest path to Mr. Right without wasting time on UGs (unavailable guys).
In season 1, we’ll focus on effective tools to trust your intuition and break the pattern of chasing after love. I’ll share empowering dating tips, advice to avoid, and how to cut through the BS.
X No complicated, inauthentic phrases or scripts to “keep a guy’s interest”
X No talk of getting into your Divine Feminine to find love
X No advice that focuses on what guys need from you
Yes to feeling inspired Yes to being your true self in love and life!
Yes to trusting yourself and listening to your intuition!
When I’m not inspiring women to find love after 40, you can find me having a laughing fit with the love of my life, baking my heart out in the kitchen or owning my GenX ways: metallic eyeshadow and my old school journal! If you’re ready to get take the first step, grab my free dating guide at https://trulyeleanor.com/datingapps
Love is closer than you think! xo Eleanor

Dating in your 40s can feel like a cosmic rollercoaster. One minute you’re certain today’s the day you meet Mr. Right. The next, you’re on the couch, wine in hand, convinced love ghosted you for good.
In this episode, we’re talking about:
💔 The “I’m so close!” optimism high followed by the crash into hopelessness
🛟 How to emotionally support yourself while dating
🌊 The “cosmic surfboard” strategy for riding the waves
💌 10 ways to stay open to love even when it feels hard
Because when you’re dating after 40, the stakes feel higher, but the love you’re calling in is so worth it. And yes… it is closer than you think.
🔑 Key Takeaways
• You don’t have to “stay positive” You just need to stay authentic
• Your emotions aren’t a problem, repressing them is
• Your journey is preparing you for the love you asked for
• You can have bad days and still be moving closer to love
• Every action counts even couch-days with your cat 🐈⬛
🧰 Tools Mentioned
✔ 10 powerful strategies to manage emotional ups + downs
✔ Tapping through fear with the “Then What?” exercise
✔ Heart-connection practices
✔ Emotional support + expansion rituals
✔ The top resource to use when you feel discouraged
🔥 Don’t Miss This Part
The one belief to delete immediately if you want to find real love after 40. “I have to be positive or I’ll never meet someone.”
Authenticity is more magnetic than perfection ever will be.
Ready for love to feel exciting again, not exhausting?
Hit play now to learn how to ride the emotional waves of dating in your 40s (without spiraling every time someone ghosts). 🎧👇
I hope you enjoyed the show! Please hit subscribe and leave a review and if you’re ready to take the fastest path to Mr. Right, be sure to download my free dating guide at https://trulyeleanor.com/datingapps