“They have their lives put together and are so perfect”; says the person who has never walked a step in any shoes except his/hers.  There's so much pursuit of perfection in our times so much so we might unjustly hate on people, or feel inadequate of never going to be enough because delusional people create an illusion of perfection you have bought. But maybe they are right to an extent...Maybe perfect does exist...but it's not what you think it is. Don't assume and presume you know this one. Get in, already Einstein.