In this episode Amber Renae and I speak all things self-love.  Amber is a civil engineer, acclaimed fashion stylist and leading e-learning specialist from Australia. With three six-figure businesses under her belt, she has defied all the odds and challenges thrown her way to crack the entrepreneurial code and design her own dream life.  Amber is a huge advocate for self-love. Life isn’t about waiting for ‘the one’ to swoop in. It’s about realising that we are born complete and that the feeling of completeness people try to find in others really comes from within. Relationships can trick you into throwing your power away and to define your happiness according to another person, but Amber decided to take her power back. She got down on one knee, bought herself a beautiful ring and made a commitment to herself. That commitment was to put herself first, put her happiness first and achieve complete self-love and self-acceptance.  Since her self-proposal in 2016, Amber has made it her mission to help empower people all over the world to take control of their lives, careers and mindsets. She’s done this through several hugely successful e-courses, and most recently was chosen as the leading expert to create an online education program for a new reality series. Dream Life Los Angeles which premiered on the FYI Network last Sunday. The show follows Amber and her team members as they build this program and see what it’s like to date in Hollywood. Now Amber is taking all her experience in love, life and career, and everything she’s experienced between home and Hollywood, and writing the ultimate book to help people create their own ‘dream life’.  Completeness starts from within, and Amber is empowering everyone to take that energy back and channel it into designing their own happiness by putting themselves first. It all starts with self-love and self-acceptance. In this episode we chat about so many things!  The biggest takeaways are: How she recovered from a history of toxic relationships and self hate How important it is to follow your heart, even if no one else seems to understand it Why it is important to be clear regarding what you want from a partner How to notice and push through what's blocking you from happiness How to face and overcome the fear that men are intimidated by success If you are interested in what Amber has to offer, check out her e-courses here. Enjoy! Jenn & Amy  Successful, Single, & Not Willing to Settle