“You are what you think.”
One hack of successful people is how, within their first few waking moments, they define their day by what they anchor their thoughts to.
Join Bosede Santos, a Ministry Leader and Christian Life Coach, on Tethered Thoughts as she invites you to focus and fasten your thoughts to anchoring truths for a successful day.
Each bite-sized episode brings you a powerful dose of transformative Biblical wisdom, to help you develop an outstanding thought life for successful living. To master your thoughts and set yourself up for daily success, join her every other weekday for a quick, potent dose of eternal wisdom meets contemporary success.
“You are what you think.”
One hack of successful people is how, within their first few waking moments, they define their day by what they anchor their thoughts to.
Join Bosede Santos, a Ministry Leader and Christian Life Coach, on Tethered Thoughts as she invites you to focus and fasten your thoughts to anchoring truths for a successful day.
Each bite-sized episode brings you a powerful dose of transformative Biblical wisdom, to help you develop an outstanding thought life for successful living. To master your thoughts and set yourself up for daily success, join her every other weekday for a quick, potent dose of eternal wisdom meets contemporary success.

In this episode of Tethered Thoughts, we dive into Jesus’ instruction in Matthew 18:15 and uncover why direct, private conversations are one of the most powerful tools for healthy leadership and spiritual maturity. In a world that often handles conflict through avoidance, venting, or public confrontation, Jesus offers a wiser, more dignifying way: talk to the person, not around the person.
You’ll learn how to address tension without anxiety, communicate truth without aggression, and protect relationships without compromising honesty. We’ll explore how early conversations prevent unnecessary escalation, how clarity restores connection, and why private dialogue builds trust in teams, families, and friendships.
Blending Scripture with real-life modern examples, this episode gives you practical language, emotional courage, and the spiritual posture needed to resolve conflict well. Whether you’re navigating workplace dynamics, family disagreements, or moments where you’re tempted to withdraw, you’ll walk away with tools to handle hard conversations with confidence, maturity, and grace.
If you want to grow in emotional resilience, relational wisdom, and Christlike leadership, this episode will help you lean into the kind of honesty that heals instead of harms — quietly strengthening every environment you influence.