Audio-Only Episodes. Captain’s Log: No guests. No fluff. Just me, the mic, and whatever’s clawing at my insides. Think audio journaling meets back-of-the-bar confessions. Less psychobabble, more soul bleed. Raw, real, and mostly for me.
Audio + Video Episodes. You ask, I riff. Therapy meets real talk. More structure, more insight, more of the good stuff on love, dating, and tools we need to build a healthy relationship. Awesome guests. Less navel-gazing, more crowd-serving. This one’s for you.
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Audio-Only Episodes. Captain’s Log: No guests. No fluff. Just me, the mic, and whatever’s clawing at my insides. Think audio journaling meets back-of-the-bar confessions. Less psychobabble, more soul bleed. Raw, real, and mostly for me.
Audio + Video Episodes. You ask, I riff. Therapy meets real talk. More structure, more insight, more of the good stuff on love, dating, and tools we need to build a healthy relationship. Awesome guests. Less navel-gazing, more crowd-serving. This one’s for you.
Why Couples Repeat the SAME Argument (And How To Stop)
The Angry Therapist Podcast
28 minutes
1 month ago
Why Couples Repeat the SAME Argument (And How To Stop)
Full Video Course HERE
All modules, worksheets, and bonus sessions. This video compiles key moments from the second core module from our relationship course - "How to Fight Without Fighting"
You'll learn:
Why repair looks completely different for each partner
How to ask for (and give) permission to reopen old conversations
What to do when you still feel hurt but your partner has “moved on”
The moment he realized he was wrong — and how that changed everything
Why fights are often bids for connection, not battles
How childhood patterns shape how we handle conflict as adults
What healthy masculine containment looks like in emotional moments
How to rebuild trust after a rupture
What apology, accountability, and understanding truly require
This episode is about the messy, human, honest side of relationships — and the courage it takes to repair in a way that actually heals.
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The Angry Therapist Podcast
Audio-Only Episodes. Captain’s Log: No guests. No fluff. Just me, the mic, and whatever’s clawing at my insides. Think audio journaling meets back-of-the-bar confessions. Less psychobabble, more soul bleed. Raw, real, and mostly for me.
Audio + Video Episodes. You ask, I riff. Therapy meets real talk. More structure, more insight, more of the good stuff on love, dating, and tools we need to build a healthy relationship. Awesome guests. Less navel-gazing, more crowd-serving. This one’s for you.
