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Tired of men talking over you? Frustrated by those who see feminism as a “threat”? Settling for the bare minimum? Welcome to the only female-forward podcast bold enough to match the audacity of mediocre men - The Audaci-Tea! Meet your hosts, Lisa, Sovereign, and Gwen: three fearless women serving up the unapologetic truth about everything from navigating dating and relationships to dismantling double standards. We’re calling out myths, rewriting the feminist playbook, and giving women the tools to live unapologetically.
In this week’s episode of The Audaci-Tea Podcast, your hosts Lisa, Sovereign, and Gwen are joined by special guest Amber Akilla! Amber is a DJ, online personality, and unapologetic advocate of living authentically. In this epsiode, Amber shares her philosophy of being hot and having fun, centering confidence, independence, and self-acceptance as tools for empowerment.
But first, in Tea Time, the hosts break down Judge Judy’s advice that women should always have their own money, Ciara adding Russell Wilson’s last name to Future Jr, how men are currently ruining nightlife, and Druski’s viral NASCAR appearance. In Mailbag, they respond to a listener navigating men’s expectations of women in public conversations.
🎧 This episode is all about embracing joy, confidence, and authenticity, and how women can decenter the male gaze to build lives filled with fun, creativity, and power.
🎙️ Topics Discussed:
Amber Akilla’s philosophy of being hot and having fun
Why women should always keep financial independence
Nightlife and how male behavior changes women’s experiences
Exercise, movement, and dance as self-care beyond weight loss
Decentering men and embracing authentic confidence
Living authentically and learning from failure
✨ Links and Resources Mentioned:Ciara Adds Russell Wilson’s Last Name to Sonhttps://www.vibe.com/news/entertainment/ciara-added-wilson-to-son-futures-last-name-years-ago-1235106568/
Men Are Ruining Nightlife!https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT6nkywHc/
Druski Goes Viralhttps://www.yahoo.com/entertainment/celebrity/articles/druski-faces-backlash-whiteface-nascar-183429728.html
📚 This Week’s Recommendation:FREE EBOOK: The Shopping List Your Mother Owes You by Mide Yussuffhttps://dunnmade.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/08/the-list-your-mother-owes-you-by-mide-yussuff-1-flat-1.pdf
Beauty Fades, Dumb Is Forever: The Making of a Happy Woman by Judy Sheindlinhttps://a.co/d/caB4MIz
Follow Amber!@AmberAkilla everywhere
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🕰️ Episode Chapters00:00 Welcome and Tea Time!03:09 Judge Judy’s Advice For Women08:34 Ciara Changes Son’s Last Name13:42 Men Are Ruining Nightlife!22:26 Druski’s Whiteface at NASCAR24:47 Welcome Amber Akilla!27:30 Amber’s Journey and Philosophy31:04 Defining Being Hot and Having Fun41:30 Movement and Exercise as Self-Care52:20 The Balance of Consumption and Contribution01:00:59 Living Authentically: Advice for Young Women01:10:16 Decentering Men, Self-Perception and Confidence01:17:28 Embracing Failure and the Journey01:24:54 Mailbag: Forced Politeness In Shared Spaces01:36:30 Poll Results: The "Manosphere" Algorithms
🎙️ The Audaci-Tea is a production of Siren Sound, executively produced by Lisa Carr, The Sovereign Woman, and Gwen. Music, audio production, and show production by Ryan Marth and Siren Sound.
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The Audaci-Tea
Tired of men talking over you? Frustrated by those who see feminism as a “threat”? Settling for the bare minimum? Welcome to the only female-forward podcast bold enough to match the audacity of mediocre men - The Audaci-Tea! Meet your hosts, Lisa, Sovereign, and Gwen: three fearless women serving up the unapologetic truth about everything from navigating dating and relationships to dismantling double standards. We’re calling out myths, rewriting the feminist playbook, and giving women the tools to live unapologetically.