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Tired of men talking over you? Frustrated by those who see feminism as a “threat”? Settling for the bare minimum? Welcome to the only female-forward podcast bold enough to match the audacity of mediocre men - The Audaci-Tea! Meet your hosts, Lisa, Sovereign, and Gwen: three fearless women serving up the unapologetic truth about everything from navigating dating and relationships to dismantling double standards. We’re calling out myths, rewriting the feminist playbook, and giving women the tools to live unapologetically.
What happens when a society has more men than women who want to partner with them? In this week’s episode of The Audaci-Tea Podcast, hosts Lisa and Sovereign unpack the concept of “surplus men” — those left out of relationships, social life, and purpose. They explore how this imbalance impacts dating, marriage, politics, and even global stability. From radicalization to authoritarianism, the hosts reveal why surplus men pose one of the most overlooked social challenges of our time.
But first, in Tea Time, they cover Alex Jones and Nick Fuentes being banned from YouTube (again), a shocking mass catcalling event in Spain, Suffolk County’s “Top 10 Deadbeat Dads” list, and a listener comment on why women stay in relationships with men. Later, they break down a Reddit case study of a husband controlling his wife through finances.
🎧 This episode digs into the ripple effects of male loneliness, societal unrest, and why women’s independence is changing the dating landscape worldwide.
🎙️ Topics Discussed:
The global rise of “surplus men” and why it matters
Male loneliness, violence, and radicalization
How skewed sex ratios shape politics and stability
Why marriage has historically “pacified” men
Finding purpose outside relationships with women
Financial control and power dynamics in modern marriages
✨ Links and Resources Mentioned:Alex Jones and Nick Fuentes Taken Off YouTube Againhttps://www.independent.co.uk/news/world/americas/us-politics/alex-jones-nick-fuentes-youtube-ban-covid-b2833859.html
Spanish Students Stage Mass Catcalling Eventhttps://www.stuff.co.nz/world/300709146/spanish-students-stage-mass-expletiveridden-catcalling-event
Top 10 Deadbeat Dads in Suffolk Countyhttps://www.yahoo.com/news/10-worst-deadbeat-dads-suffolk-234139974.html
A Surplus Of Men, A Deficit Of Peacehttps://kar.kent.ac.uk/11430/1/surplus_men_IS_article.pdf
Women Continue To Outpace Men In College Enrollment and Graduationhttps://www.forbes.com/sites/michaeltnietzel/2024/08/07/women-continue-to-outpace-men-in-college-enrollment-and-graduation/
📚 This Week’s Recommendation:Everything Is Tuberculosis by John Greenhttps://www.amazon.com/Everything-Tuberculosis-Persistence-Deadliest-Infection/dp/0525556575Lisa’s blog on Surplus Men:
https://www.patreon.com/posts/reading-tea-blog-140381730
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🕰️ Episode Chapters00:00 Welcome and Tea Time!04:05 Alex Jones & Nick Fuentes Banned From YouTube Again07:40 Mass Catcalling Event in Spain14:55 Top 10 Deadbeat Dads18:35 Can You Decenter Men While In A Relationship?28:15 Surplus Men: Understanding the Crisis39:02 The Reality of Surplus Men49:48 Political Implications of Surplus Males58:10 Why Are There Surplus Men?01:06:15 Evolution and Identity Crisis in Men01:11:12 How To Not Be A Surplus Man01:18:17 This You? Husband Withholds Finances01:35:24 Poll Results: Why Women Lose Themselves In Relationships
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The Audaci-Tea
Tired of men talking over you? Frustrated by those who see feminism as a “threat”? Settling for the bare minimum? Welcome to the only female-forward podcast bold enough to match the audacity of mediocre men - The Audaci-Tea! Meet your hosts, Lisa, Sovereign, and Gwen: three fearless women serving up the unapologetic truth about everything from navigating dating and relationships to dismantling double standards. We’re calling out myths, rewriting the feminist playbook, and giving women the tools to live unapologetically.
