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Tired of men talking over you? Frustrated by those who see feminism as a “threat”? Settling for the bare minimum? Welcome to the only female-forward podcast bold enough to match the audacity of mediocre men - The Audaci-Tea! Meet your hosts, Lisa, Sovereign, and Gwen: three fearless women serving up the unapologetic truth about everything from navigating dating and relationships to dismantling double standards. We’re calling out myths, rewriting the feminist playbook, and giving women the tools to live unapologetically.
In this week’s episode of The Audaci-Tea Podcast, hosts Lisa and Sovereign unpack the “Cool Girl” archetype; the effortless, chill, low-maintenance woman who always puts men’s comfort first. They explore how this myth was built to serve patriarchy, how it pressures women to suppress their emotions and identity, and why rejecting it is a radical act of self-love.
But first, in Tea Time, the hosts discuss Ayesha Curry’s viral comments about not wanting marriage or kids, the Texas State Fair backlash over price gouging, and a man who went viral for buying a life-size Henry Cavill doll. Later, in Tea or Trash, they debate the ethics of cosmetic surgery and authenticity in the age of performative empowerment.
🎧 This episode dives into the Cool Girl archetype — how patriarchy rewards female self-erasure, how women perform to earn male approval, and why true empowerment begins with authenticity.
🎙️ Topics Discussed:
The origins and cultural impact of the Cool Girl archetype
How patriarchy teaches women to perform for the male gaze
Ayesha Curry and public discourse on marriage, motherhood, and autonomy
Authenticity vs. the “low-maintenance” performance
Why women’s self-worth must exist beyond male validation
The intersection of feminism, beauty culture, and self-acceptance
✨ Links and Resources Mentioned:Ayesha Curry Says She Didn’t Want To Get Married Or Have Kidshttps://www.yahoo.com/entertainment/celebrity/articles/stephen-curry-supports-ayesha-amid-145811878.html
Viral Social Media Posts Spark Debate Over State Fair of Texas Attendance and Costshttps://www.wfaa.com/article/news/local/state-fair/viral-posts-spark-debate-over-state-fair-of-texas-attendance-costs/287-4994d76c-ddb1-45af-9f93-61ebab6ec5e0
Man Buys Anatomically Correct Henry Cavill Dollhttps://www.queerty.com/man-buys-a-life-size-silicone-anatomically-correct-henry-cavill-doll-immediately-goes-viral-20251008/
📚 This Week’s Recommendation:When Did You Realize That Being the “Cool Girlfriend” Was a Load of Sh*t?https://www.reddit.com/r/AskWomen/comments/127umam/when_did_you_realize_that_being_the_cool/?share_id=y5PhlxBUsXiMss2yaLSNy&utm_content=2&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_source=share&utm_term=1
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🕰️ Episode Chapters00:00 Welcome and Tea Time!05:46 Ayesha Curry “Didn’t Want Marriage Or Kids”13:55 Texas State Fair: Price Gouging and Public Reactions18:40 Man Buys Anatomically Correct Henry Cavill Doll25:38 Understanding the “Cool Girl”33:06 The Dynamics of Female Competition38:36 The Performance of Being a Cool Girl43:52 The Exhaustion of Cool Girl Expectations49:43 Authenticity in Relationships50:50 The Cool Girl vs. Trad Wife Dichotomy56:30 The Consequences of Being a Cool Girl01:06:09 Recognizing Your Worth01:11:30 Empowerment Through Self-Love and Healing01:14:38 Tea or Trash: Cosmetic Surgery01:29:58 Tea or Trash: Feminism in Advertising01:32:38 Poll Results: Surplus Men
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Tired of men talking over you? Frustrated by those who see feminism as a “threat”? Settling for the bare minimum? Welcome to the only female-forward podcast bold enough to match the audacity of mediocre men - The Audaci-Tea! Meet your hosts, Lisa, Sovereign, and Gwen: three fearless women serving up the unapologetic truth about everything from navigating dating and relationships to dismantling double standards. We’re calling out myths, rewriting the feminist playbook, and giving women the tools to live unapologetically.
