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Tired of men talking over you? Frustrated by those who see feminism as a “threat”? Settling for the bare minimum? Welcome to the only female-forward podcast bold enough to match the audacity of mediocre men - The Audaci-Tea! Meet your hosts, Lisa, Sovereign, and Gwen: three fearless women serving up the unapologetic truth about everything from navigating dating and relationships to dismantling double standards. We’re calling out myths, rewriting the feminist playbook, and giving women the tools to live unapologetically.
The Performance Of Masculinity (feat. The Public Offender)
The Audaci-Tea
1 hour 51 minutes
1 month ago
The Performance Of Masculinity (feat. The Public Offender)
In this week’s episode of The Audaci-Tea Podcast, hosts Lisa and Sovereign welcome back special guest The Public Offender to unpack what it really means to perform masculinity, and how this performance shapes men’s behavior, women’s safety, and the structure of society itself. Together, they explore how cultural scripts of “manhood” are reinforced by patriarchy, peer pressure, and media, and how redefining masculinity could free everyone from toxic expectations.
But first, in Tea Time, the hosts cover Trump’s attempt at a military takeover of Portland, Nicole Kidman and Keith Urban’s divorce, Janae’s viral diss track aimed at Nicki Minaj, a listener comment asking whether decentering men actually centers them, and a Tea VIP voicemail seeking advice about her son’s father. Later, in the Mailbag segment, they tackle a listener question about handling a brother-in-law’s inappropriate text messages.
🎧 This episode pulls back the curtain on the performance of masculinity — how men perform toughness for other men, the social cost of emotional repression, and how redefining manhood benefits everyone.
🎙️ Topics Discussed:
The cultural performance of masculinity and its social consequences
Male identity, emotional repression, and societal expectations
Patriarchy’s influence on relationships and gender dynamics
How peer groups reinforce toxic masculine norms
Feminism, empathy, and the path to redefining manhood
Navigating harassment, boundaries, and accountability
✨ Links and Resources Mentioned:Trump Slams Federal Judge, Whom He Appointed, for Blocking National Guard Deployment in Portlandhttps://tinyurl.com/mvw3p7vh
Keith Urban’s ‘Cocaine Clause’ Set to Land Him Millions as Nicole Kidman Files for Divorcehttps://www.standard.co.uk/showbiz/keith-urban-cocaine-clause-prenup-nicole-kidman-divorce-b1250581.html
Janae Releases Nicki Minaj Diss Trackhttps://www.tiktok.com/@janae.alea/video/7557571706492161310
📚 This Week’s Recommendation:The Performance of Masculinity: Beyond Postures and Gestureshttps://davidnjohnson.com/men/the-performance-of-masculinity-beyond-postures-and-gestures/
Follow The Public Offenderhttps://linktr.ee/publicoffender
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🕰️ Episode Chapters00:00 Welcome and Tea Time!03:15 Trump Attempts Portland Military Takeover05:55 Nicole Kidman & Keith Urban Divorce11:50 Janae Releases Nicki Minaj Diss Track12:28 Is It Impossible To Decenter Men?18:56 Tea VIP Voicemail: Anger Towards Men26:07 Welcome Back, The Public Offender!31:03 Race, Class, And Masculinity36:14 Scripts of Manhood and Societal Expectations41:18 Men Hate Femininity52:21 The Influence of Male Peer Groups01:03:05 The Patriarchy's Grip on Society01:13:24 Cultural Differences in Women's Solidarity01:21:56 Escaping the Patriarchy01:33:44 Mailbag: Sexual Harassment From Brother-In-Law01:50:00 Poll Results: Decoding 'Manspeak'
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Tired of men talking over you? Frustrated by those who see feminism as a “threat”? Settling for the bare minimum? Welcome to the only female-forward podcast bold enough to match the audacity of mediocre men - The Audaci-Tea! Meet your hosts, Lisa, Sovereign, and Gwen: three fearless women serving up the unapologetic truth about everything from navigating dating and relationships to dismantling double standards. We’re calling out myths, rewriting the feminist playbook, and giving women the tools to live unapologetically.
