Have you ever noticed how your presence can make people both admire and resent you at the same time?
One moment they’re drawn to your composure, your depth, your light - and the next, they’re calling you intimidating, too intense, or “a bit much.”
Perhaps this has been the story of your entire life.
In this episode, I unpack what’s really happening when your presence activates projection in your friends, clients, colleagues, even family. We’ll explore six common archetypes that powerful women unconsciously embody (the Refined Outsider, the Initiatrix, the Independent Light, and more) and why these energies stir admiration and shadow in equal measure.
You’ll learn how to read the feedback of the field without shrinking, apologising, or over-explaining yourself and instead, how to stay rooted in your own energetic sovereignty as a woman of depth.
Because when you understand projection, you stop taking people’s reactions personally and start reading them as data from the collective unconscious.
If you’re ready to turn your depth into your profession, this is the work we do inside The Psychodynamic Coach Academy - our internationally accredited certification for coaches who want to work at soul-level depth.
- Early Bird savings are ending soon.
- Just 2 spots left!
Discover more here: https://www.psychodynamiccoachinginstitute.com/certification
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Have you ever noticed how your presence can make people both admire and resent you at the same time?
One moment they’re drawn to your composure, your depth, your light - and the next, they’re calling you intimidating, too intense, or “a bit much.”
Perhaps this has been the story of your entire life.
In this episode, I unpack what’s really happening when your presence activates projection in your friends, clients, colleagues, even family. We’ll explore six common archetypes that powerful women unconsciously embody (the Refined Outsider, the Initiatrix, the Independent Light, and more) and why these energies stir admiration and shadow in equal measure.
You’ll learn how to read the feedback of the field without shrinking, apologising, or over-explaining yourself and instead, how to stay rooted in your own energetic sovereignty as a woman of depth.
Because when you understand projection, you stop taking people’s reactions personally and start reading them as data from the collective unconscious.
If you’re ready to turn your depth into your profession, this is the work we do inside The Psychodynamic Coach Academy - our internationally accredited certification for coaches who want to work at soul-level depth.
- Early Bird savings are ending soon.
- Just 2 spots left!
Discover more here: https://www.psychodynamiccoachinginstitute.com/certification
Episode 103 - From Self-Doubt to Coaching Mastery: How to Become the Coach You’re Meant to Be
The BigTalk Podcast
40 minutes 24 seconds
10 months ago
Episode 103 - From Self-Doubt to Coaching Mastery: How to Become the Coach You’re Meant to Be
Welcome to Episode 103 of the #BigTalk podcast.
In this episode, we tackle one of the most common struggles coaches face: self-doubt. Whether you're new to coaching or looking to level up your business, it’s natural to feel insecure or uncertain about your path. If you’ve ever felt like an imposter, feared judgment, or worried you’re not good enough to lead, you’re not alone.
But here's the truth: good intentions, a willingness to help others, and positive thinking alone won’t lead to coaching mastery. In today’s episode, we dive deep into the root cause of self-doubt and how it holds many coaches back from stepping into their true potential.
You’ll learn how self-doubt shows up in your coaching practice - whether it’s procrastination, fear of visibility, or feeling overwhelmed by the responsibility of leading others. We’ll also talk about how shadow work and psychodynamic practices can help you break through these barriers, build unshakeable confidence, and move into authentic coaching leadership.
Whether you’re a new or aspiring coach, or a coach who’s ready to go deeper into their craft this episode is for you if you’re ready to stop second-guessing yourself and step into the coach you’re truly meant to be. Tune in and discover the high-level solution that will help you shift from self-doubt to coaching mastery.
* Note: there is some adult language in this episode so wear earphones if you have sensitive ears around*
Thanks so much for stopping by and until next time... much love.
Amanda x
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About Amanda - Psychologist & Business Strategist:
Amanda Davies is a multi award-winning business leader, a Registered Psychologist with the Australian Health Practitioner Regulation Agency (AHPRA) for over 20 years, and a Certified Somatic Practitioner.
As a Fellow of the Association for Coaching (AC), Amanda has made significant contributions to the industry and pioneered the world's first Psychodynamic Coaching methodology, reflecting her passion for integrating accessible coaching methodologies with Psychodynamics to achieve profound and lasting transformation.
She is committed to supporting current and future leaders in the personal development industry, helping them deepen their craft and create a ripple effect of positive change. In 2015, Amanda transitioned from a successful corporate career to pursue her passion for empowering others.
With over 20 years of diverse experience, she passionately believes that, regardless of your circumstances or the obstacles you face, you can achieve your full potential in this lifetime.
Amanda has been featured in The Times, The Guardian, Yahoo Finance, The Telegraph, and Huffington Post. She was shortlisted as a finalist in the UK's National Business Awards (2017) and named as the UK's leading Business Mentor (2019).
Her dedication to blending coaching methodologies with Psychodynamic principles sets her apart as a transformative force in the field of personal development.
Amanda's Links:
Become a Certified Psychodynamic Coach - Spring 2025 Early Bird Enrolment Open: https://www.psychodynamiccoachinginstitute.com/certification
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lightpurposeliving/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lightpurposeliving/
Website: https://www.lightpurposeliving.com/
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The BigTalk Podcast
Have you ever noticed how your presence can make people both admire and resent you at the same time?
One moment they’re drawn to your composure, your depth, your light - and the next, they’re calling you intimidating, too intense, or “a bit much.”
Perhaps this has been the story of your entire life.
In this episode, I unpack what’s really happening when your presence activates projection in your friends, clients, colleagues, even family. We’ll explore six common archetypes that powerful women unconsciously embody (the Refined Outsider, the Initiatrix, the Independent Light, and more) and why these energies stir admiration and shadow in equal measure.
You’ll learn how to read the feedback of the field without shrinking, apologising, or over-explaining yourself and instead, how to stay rooted in your own energetic sovereignty as a woman of depth.
Because when you understand projection, you stop taking people’s reactions personally and start reading them as data from the collective unconscious.
If you’re ready to turn your depth into your profession, this is the work we do inside The Psychodynamic Coach Academy - our internationally accredited certification for coaches who want to work at soul-level depth.
- Early Bird savings are ending soon.
- Just 2 spots left!
Discover more here: https://www.psychodynamiccoachinginstitute.com/certification
