Have you ever noticed how your presence can make people both admire and resent you at the same time?
One moment they’re drawn to your composure, your depth, your light - and the next, they’re calling you intimidating, too intense, or “a bit much.”
Perhaps this has been the story of your entire life.
In this episode, I unpack what’s really happening when your presence activates projection in your friends, clients, colleagues, even family. We’ll explore six common archetypes that powerful women unconsciously embody (the Refined Outsider, the Initiatrix, the Independent Light, and more) and why these energies stir admiration and shadow in equal measure.
You’ll learn how to read the feedback of the field without shrinking, apologising, or over-explaining yourself and instead, how to stay rooted in your own energetic sovereignty as a woman of depth.
Because when you understand projection, you stop taking people’s reactions personally and start reading them as data from the collective unconscious.
If you’re ready to turn your depth into your profession, this is the work we do inside The Psychodynamic Coach Academy - our internationally accredited certification for coaches who want to work at soul-level depth.
- Early Bird savings are ending soon.
- Just 2 spots left!
Discover more here: https://www.psychodynamiccoachinginstitute.com/certification
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Have you ever noticed how your presence can make people both admire and resent you at the same time?
One moment they’re drawn to your composure, your depth, your light - and the next, they’re calling you intimidating, too intense, or “a bit much.”
Perhaps this has been the story of your entire life.
In this episode, I unpack what’s really happening when your presence activates projection in your friends, clients, colleagues, even family. We’ll explore six common archetypes that powerful women unconsciously embody (the Refined Outsider, the Initiatrix, the Independent Light, and more) and why these energies stir admiration and shadow in equal measure.
You’ll learn how to read the feedback of the field without shrinking, apologising, or over-explaining yourself and instead, how to stay rooted in your own energetic sovereignty as a woman of depth.
Because when you understand projection, you stop taking people’s reactions personally and start reading them as data from the collective unconscious.
If you’re ready to turn your depth into your profession, this is the work we do inside The Psychodynamic Coach Academy - our internationally accredited certification for coaches who want to work at soul-level depth.
- Early Bird savings are ending soon.
- Just 2 spots left!
Discover more here: https://www.psychodynamiccoachinginstitute.com/certification
Episode 104 - What Most Coaches Get Wrong About Visibility
The BigTalk Podcast
44 minutes 42 seconds
7 months ago
Episode 104 - What Most Coaches Get Wrong About Visibility
You’ve done the mindset work.
You’ve journaled your affirmations.
You’ve hired the coach, written the post, hit publish…
So why does visibility in your business still feel like a full-body shutdown?
In this episode, I’m pulling back the curtain on the real reason so many brilliant, intuitive, soul-led women still feel resistance around being seen - especially the super survivors, cycle breakers, and sensitives amongst us.
(Spoiler: it’s not your content. It’s your shadow).
In this episode we explore:
✨ The difference between “visibility mindset” and shadow visibility work
✨ Why your brilliance and boldness were likely buried in your early years
✨ The concept of your Shadow Edge - and how reclaiming it changes everything
✨ Why being visible hits harder for cycle breakers and super survivors
This conversation is a reclamation for the parts of you that are still hiding behind polish and perfection. The parts that were taught to perform, shrink, or play nice.
If you’ve ever felt like you’re ready to step into more impact - but still find yourself second-guessing, over-editing, or shapeshifting your voice…
This episode is for you.
* Note: there is some adult language in this episode so wear earphones if you have sensitive ears around*
Thanks so much for stopping by and until next time... much love.
Amanda x
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About Amanda - Psychologist & Business Strategist:
Amanda Davies is a multi award-winning business leader, a Registered Psychologist with the Australian Health Practitioner Regulation Agency (AHPRA) for over 20 years, and a Certified Somatic Practitioner.
As a Fellow of the Association for Coaching (AC), Amanda has made significant contributions to the industry and pioneered the world's first Psychodynamic Coaching methodology, reflecting her passion for integrating accessible coaching methodologies with Psychodynamics to achieve profound and lasting transformation.
She is committed to supporting current and future leaders in the personal development industry, helping them deepen their craft and create a ripple effect of positive change. In 2015, Amanda transitioned from a successful corporate career to pursue her passion for empowering others.
With over 20 years of diverse experience, she passionately believes that, regardless of your circumstances or the obstacles you face, you can achieve your full potential in this lifetime.
Amanda has been featured in The Times, The Guardian, Yahoo Finance, The Telegraph, and Huffington Post. She was shortlisted as a finalist in the UK's National Business Awards (2017) and named as the UK's leading Business Mentor (2019).
Her dedication to blending coaching methodologies with Psychodynamic principles sets her apart as a transformative force in the field of personal development.
Amanda's Links:
Join the 'Electric Woman' Shadow Work Course (use Code ELECTRIC20 at checkout to save 20% throughout June): https://www.lightpurposelivingtraining.com/electricwoman
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The BigTalk Podcast
Have you ever noticed how your presence can make people both admire and resent you at the same time?
One moment they’re drawn to your composure, your depth, your light - and the next, they’re calling you intimidating, too intense, or “a bit much.”
Perhaps this has been the story of your entire life.
In this episode, I unpack what’s really happening when your presence activates projection in your friends, clients, colleagues, even family. We’ll explore six common archetypes that powerful women unconsciously embody (the Refined Outsider, the Initiatrix, the Independent Light, and more) and why these energies stir admiration and shadow in equal measure.
You’ll learn how to read the feedback of the field without shrinking, apologising, or over-explaining yourself and instead, how to stay rooted in your own energetic sovereignty as a woman of depth.
Because when you understand projection, you stop taking people’s reactions personally and start reading them as data from the collective unconscious.
If you’re ready to turn your depth into your profession, this is the work we do inside The Psychodynamic Coach Academy - our internationally accredited certification for coaches who want to work at soul-level depth.
- Early Bird savings are ending soon.
- Just 2 spots left!
Discover more here: https://www.psychodynamiccoachinginstitute.com/certification
