Hosted by former Division 1 football coach turned mindset and leadership entrepreneur, David ”Coach Kitch” Kitchen, The Built Not Born Podcast brings you stories and lessons from leaders, athletes, and entrepreneurs who embody what it means to live in The Arena and to prove once and for all that leaders are #BuiltNotBorn
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Hosted by former Division 1 football coach turned mindset and leadership entrepreneur, David ”Coach Kitch” Kitchen, The Built Not Born Podcast brings you stories and lessons from leaders, athletes, and entrepreneurs who embody what it means to live in The Arena and to prove once and for all that leaders are #BuiltNotBorn
🎧 Episode Summary:
In this episode, David sits down with Ashton Leverak—21-year special operations veteran turned real estate entrepreneur and mindset coach. Ashton shares how he transitioned from 15 combat deployments to building a $90M real estate portfolio, and how the real battlefield wasn’t overseas—it was internal. The two dive deep into emotional regulation, identity beyond the uniform, and what it really means to lead yourself and others.
🔑 Key Topics Covered:
Emotional regulation as a performance tool
Identity shifts post-military and post-career
Why clarity is a prerequisite for commitment
The hidden cost of misaligned ambition
Masculinity, legacy, and redefining success
Breathwork, meditation, and nervous system mastery
How to build a new life without losing your edge
⏱️ Timestamps:
00:00 – Welcome + Ashton’s background in special ops08:30 – Early life, rebellion, and the call to serve17:42 – Identity, self-worth, and proving value25:50 – Imposter syndrome vs. internal certainty33:05 – Combat, clarity, and the power of priorities41:20 – Real estate, entrepreneurship, and flipping the internal switch48:10 – Meditation, breathwork, and nervous system control55:36 – Legacy, family, and what makes a man1:04:12 – The mindset behind “Built Not Born”1:09:45 – Lightning Round: Legacy, identity, and advice for the next chapter
👤 Guest Bio:
Ashton Leverak is a 21-year U.S. Special Operations veteran with 15 combat deployments, now turned real estate investor, fund manager, and performance coach. He is the founder of Valkere Investment Group, where he helps everyday investors build generational wealth through real estate. Ashton also runs a coaching community focused on mindset, purpose, and post-career reinvention. His mission is to help high performers build lives of clarity, strength, and service.
đź”— Guest Links:
Website: www.valkeregroup.com
LinkedIn: Ashton Leverak
Instagram: @ashtonleverak
The Built Not Born Podcast
Hosted by former Division 1 football coach turned mindset and leadership entrepreneur, David ”Coach Kitch” Kitchen, The Built Not Born Podcast brings you stories and lessons from leaders, athletes, and entrepreneurs who embody what it means to live in The Arena and to prove once and for all that leaders are #BuiltNotBorn