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You say you want freedom — peace with food, confidence in your body, consistency in your habits — but somehow, every time you get close, you find yourself back in the same loop: overthinking, overeating, and starting over again.
In this episode, Chris Terrell breaks down why you keep doing that.
You’ll learn how the mind becomes addicted to struggle — not because it’s good, but because it’s known. And how that “familiar captivity” convinces you to stay stuck in patterns that quietly destroy your self-trust.
This isn’t about food or fitness plans. It’s about freedom — real freedom — and what it takes to walk away from the version of yourself that’s still chained to comfort, control, and shame.
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In this episode:
• Why your brain prefers familiar misery over unfamiliar freedom
• The subtle ways you recreate struggle in your life (and call it “normal”)
• How to recognize when comfort has turned into captivity
• What really happens when you stop believing your excuses
• How to rebuild trust with yourself one decision at a time
• Why failure isn’t bad — and how it’s the key to finally being free
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Key Takeaways
1. Familiar pain feels safer than unknown peace. Your brain equates predictability with safety — even when that predictability hurts.
2. You’re not broken. You’re conditioned. And conditioning can be unlearned.
3. Freedom feels unfamiliar at first. It’s supposed to. That discomfort is growth.
4. Self-trust is rebuilt through action, not perfection. Every time you follow through — even a little — you’re rewiring who you believe yourself to be.
5. The cage isn’t locked. You’re holding the key. You just have to decide to turn it.
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Listen if you’ve ever said:
• “I know what to do, I just can’t seem to do it.”
• “Every time things start going well, I mess it up.”
• “I feel like I’m addicted to struggle.”
• “I don’t trust myself anymore.”