Let me know your thoughts about the podcast. Thank you for listening! Before you propose or say yes, ask the question that quietly predicts whether your home will feel safe, warm, and steady years from now. We unpack a counterintuitive truth: the third must-ask question changes depending on whether you’re a man or a woman—and that shift explains why some relationships grow calmer with time while others grind down under small daily frictions. I walk through the men’s filter first: am I willin...