We talk about joy like it’s decoration.
Light. Silly. Optional.
But for most of us, joy isn’t the first instinct, vigilance is.
Pressure is.
The low hum of “what needs fixing” is.
Joy feels risky because it requires us to unclench.
To soften.
To stop bracing for impact.
And that’s the secret no one admits:
We avoid joy not because it’s childish…
but because it’s vulnerable.
In this episode, we go straight into:
• why joy feels dangerous to the nervous system
• how we confuse survival mode with maturity
• the hidden fear beneath “I’ll relax when…”
• why joy is actually coherence
• how joy becomes the frequency the field responds to
• the surprising reason joy makes you more magnetic, not less
• how to let joy in without forcing anything
This isn’t a fluffy conversation.
It’s a recalibration.
Because joy isn’t the prize at the end of your journey.
Joy is the leverage that makes the journey work.
Take a breath.
This one might change your whole day.