The 5% That Could Make or Break Your Kids’ Emotional Safety with You

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The Confidad Podcast

Dan Tinquist

54 episodes

3 days ago

The Confidad Podcast is here to help you learn how to build better bonds with your children. Deep, joyful bonds that will strengthen the bridge between you and your child so that when hard conversations need to be had, your relationship can handle that weight. We are all busy parents, and no one needs "one more thing to do." Confidad is here to empower and equip you in slight shifts in perspective and practice within the time you already spend with your kids. Join with us as we explore what it looks like to create deep and joyful bonds with our kids.

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The 5% That Could Make or Break Your Kids’ Emotional Safety with You | Season 2 Episode 34

The Confidad Podcast

9 minutes 58 seconds

9 months ago

The 5% That Could Make or Break Your Kids’ Emotional Safety with You | Season 2 Episode 34

Summary

In this episode of the Confidad Podcast, Dan Tinquist explores the critical role of fathers in creating an emotional sanctuary for their children. He emphasizes the importance of self-reflection and personal growth in parenting, urging fathers to confront their emotional responses and work towards being a safe space for their kids. The conversation highlights the distinction between being a supportive figure and perpetuating emotional trauma, encouraging fathers to engage in deep work for the benefit of their families.

Takeaways

I am the only one who can fulfill the father role.

Do my kids see me as a safe house or a danger zone?

Your prefrontal cortex has been fully developed; theirs has not.

Are you a place where they might experience emotional trauma?

Does not get transformed in us, we will transfer to our children.

You can choose to be a dad that is an emotional sanctuary.

The bridge the emotional status quo is your deep work.

The 5% that I do is the difference between being an emotional sanctuary and perpetuating trauma.

You would never make your kids pay the price for your own work.

May this be a fork in the road to say, I'm gonna choose deep work.

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