Why do we keep fighting about the same things? Every couple faces conflict, but James 4:1–3 shows the real issue isn’t your spouse or your stress. “What causes fights and quarrels among you? Don’t they come from your desires that battle within you?”
In this message, Pastor Tyler unpacks James 4 and Galatians 6 to show how to stop fighting in your relationships by shifting the fight from each other to what’s happening inside us. We want love, respect, and peace — but when we don’t get it, we try to control instead of pray. James says, “You do not have because you do not ask God.”
Healthy relationships aren’t about keeping score; they’re about sharing burdens, not behaviors. Galatians 6:2 challenges us to “share each other’s burdens, and in this way obey the law of Christ.”
If your relationships feel stuck in tension or silence, this message will help you reset your approach and rediscover peace — not by fixing the other person, but by letting God transform your heart.
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