Where do you even begin? Part One sets the groundwork so the decisions feel calmer and more doable - without turning it into a checklist.
In this episode:
Burial vs cremation (with a note on aquamation) — what this early decision shapes next
No Service, No Attendance (direct cremation) — why some families choose it, and simple rituals so grief still has a place to land
Service types — traditional funeral, memorial, celebration of life, and mixing a private farewell with a later gathering
Venues & who leads — chapels, churches, wedding venues, halls, surf clubs, restaurants, backyards; clergy vs celebrant vs family-led
Timing — why you don’t have to rush, common timelines, and practical factors (paperwork, travel, customs, venue diaries)
What’s in Part Two:
We bring the day to life — coffins/caskets/shrouds, flowers/readings/orders of service/photo tributes, music & rituals, eulogies & who speaks.
Content note: We discuss death, grief, and funeral planning. Please take care while listening.
Crisis support (Australia):
Emergency: 000 (immediate danger)
Lifeline: 13 11 14 — 24/7 crisis support & suicide prevention
13YARN: 13 92 76 — 24/7 crisis support for Aboriginal & Torres Strait Islander peoples
Suicide Call Back Service: 1300 659 467 — 24/7 phone & online counselling
Beyond Blue: 1300 22 4636 — 24/7 mental health support
Kids Helpline: 1800 55 1800 — 24/7 support for young people (5–25)
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