Send us a text Healing doesn’t arrive with a ribbon and a theme song. It’s a gritty, everyday practice of choosing honesty over autopilot, boundaries over people-pleasing, and presence over numbness. We open up about the kind of courage that rarely gets applause: the quiet, internal work that changes how you meet your life, one small decision at a time. We start by reframing healing from a destination into a set of daily choices. That shift matters, because when you expect a finish line, eve...
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Send us a text Healing doesn’t arrive with a ribbon and a theme song. It’s a gritty, everyday practice of choosing honesty over autopilot, boundaries over people-pleasing, and presence over numbness. We open up about the kind of courage that rarely gets applause: the quiet, internal work that changes how you meet your life, one small decision at a time. We start by reframing healing from a destination into a set of daily choices. That shift matters, because when you expect a finish line, eve...
The Gravity of Unspoken Expectations: Why Your Partner Isn't a Mind Reader
The Devil You Don’t Know
58 minutes
8 months ago
The Gravity of Unspoken Expectations: Why Your Partner Isn't a Mind Reader
Send us a text Cleveland and Lindsay return after a long break to tackle the frustrating phenomenon of silent scripts in relationships and why expecting your partner to read your mind sets you both up for failure. • Silent scripts are unspoken expectations we have for our partners but never communicate directly • The absurdity of expecting mind-reading from partners when we'd never expect it in other relationships • Covert contracts create one-sided agreements where we expect something in re...
The Devil You Don’t Know
Send us a text Healing doesn’t arrive with a ribbon and a theme song. It’s a gritty, everyday practice of choosing honesty over autopilot, boundaries over people-pleasing, and presence over numbness. We open up about the kind of courage that rarely gets applause: the quiet, internal work that changes how you meet your life, one small decision at a time. We start by reframing healing from a destination into a set of daily choices. That shift matters, because when you expect a finish line, eve...
