In this Q&A episode, I’m answering your heart-questions around feeling safe in love, navigating separation, manifesting new relationships, and learning how to trust life, the divine, and yourself again.
We explore what it really means to feel safe in relationship when your nervous system is still recalibrating – that pendulation between “I feel safe” and “I don’t feel safe” – and why that doesn’t mean you’re broken or doomed, it means you’re growing and expanding your capacity. We talk about the difference between knowing you are always safe at a soul level, and not feeling safe in the moment… and how to tend to yourself when you want to run.
I share a personal story from my relationship with Liam about feeling deeply triggered, holding my boundary, and not going into the old spiral of pulling up the past, attacking, or running — and how that actually created more safety and trust between us.
Inside this episode, we move through questions around:
Struggling to feel consistently safe and wanting to run from the relationship
Navigating separation, anxiety, overwhelm, fear & sleepless nights
How to connect with your feminine energy when you feel stuck in your masculine and the need to control everything
Manifesting new relationships with your children, yourself, and a potential life partner
Releasing generational mother wounds, people pleasing & the need for outside validation
Feeling afraid of not being taken care of and learning to lean back, trust, and receive
Manifesting from pure alignment vs. ego, and being fully supported by life & the divine
Balancing surrender with taking aligned action (and why it was always about who you’re becoming)
Releasing the last layers of doubt and fear around receiving and allowing your manifestations to unfold with more ease, grace, and joy
If you’re in a season of big emotions, relationship questions, or you’re in the thick of manifesting “your next level” and wondering if you can actually trust it… this episode will meet you there with tenderness, truth, and nervous-system-aware support.
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