Dr. Linny Phuong takes inspiration from The Wife Drought by Annabel Crabb and is joined by paediatrician Dr. Robyn Silcock (neé Miller) founder of the Mental Load Project. Together, they explore the invisible labour that disproportionately falls on women, the challenges of balancing a demanding medical career with home life and how couples—especially in dual-career households—can share the mental load more equitably.   Key topics include:   What mental load is and why it matters for doctors How the unequal division of domestic labour impacts career progression Strategies for dividing (not delegating) household responsibilities How medical workplaces can better support flexible work for both men and women Cultural expectations and the gendered judgment of parenting and domestic tasks The role of leadership in driving equality in hospitals and medicine Practical tips for rebalancing the mental load at home Robyn shares insights from her work helping couples navigate invisible labour, highlighting how small, intentional shifts at home can lead to more sustainable careers for doctors. This conversation is essential for anyone in medicine grappling with the challenge of "doing it all" and looking for tangible strategies to create a more equal, supportive home and work environment. Contact details for listeners:   AMA Victoria Director of Communication and Advocacy, Taryn Sheehy at amavic@amavic.com.au Facebook: AMAinVictoria Twitter: amavictoria Instagram: youramavic LinkedIn: Australian Medical Association (Victoria) Links: https://amavic.com.au/news---resources/podcast-the-doctors-room   Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices