Are you chasing wealth — or are you building it?
Welcome! In this episode we dig into why wealth is a long-game, not a quick win, and how the daily little decisions you make shape your financial future more than flashy one-time purchases. Drawing on the insights of Morgan Housel’s work and the idea of internal vs external benchmarks, we’ll explore how to spend (and save) consciously, avoid common traps, and build a life that truly supports you.
Many of us fall into the trap of trying to impress others — the bigger house, the luxury car, the Instagram-worthy vacation. These external benchmarks may give brief excitement, but often they are expensive, drain our savings, and don’t deliver the long-term happiness we expect. Housel reminds us: “If nobody was watching, how would I choose to live?”
Instead, when we align our money with our internal benchmarks — things like time with loved ones, freedom, meaningful experiences, independence — we tend to spend with purpose, save with intention, and build wealth rather than chase status. We’ll talk about everyday habits: setting a savings rate, resisting lifestyle creep, choosing utility over status, defining your “enough” and paying your future self first.
We’ll also cover some of the major challenges: FOMO, status-driven spending, and short-term gratification vs long-term benefit. For each one we’ll offer practical ways to catch yourself, shift your mindset, and pivot your behavior.
By the end of the episode you’ll have actionable takeaways: one habit to implement today, one spending choice to rethink this week, and a reminder that building wealth isn’t glamorous — but it is powerful when done consistently.
What you’ll learn:
Why wealth = what you have minus what you want (and why the “what you want” matters just as much).
How to tell if your money is being spent for you or for others.
Simple daily actions that build wealth over decades instead of chasing one big lightning strike.
How to handle the mental challenges of comparison, social pressure and impulse-spending.
Join the conversation: What spending decision surprised you this year? What internal benchmark matters most to you? Drop a comment below — your insight might help someone else.
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