Matthew shares his journey of self-discovery, military service, and personal challenges in this conversation. He discusses the importance of identity, the impact of leadership in the military, and the lessons learned from deployment experiences. Matthew also opens up about navigating personal loss, the significance of spirituality, and the challenges of family health issues. He emphasizes the importance of vulnerability and seeking help, reflecting on how these experiences have shaped his perspective on life and legacy. In this conversation, we discuss the importance of vulnerability in leadership, the impact of mental health on personal and professional lives, and the significance of love and emotional connections in leadership roles. They explore the challenges of transitioning from military to civilian life, the importance of quality time in parenting, and the necessity of self-examination for personal growth. The dialogue emphasizes the need for supportive relationships and the role of servant leadership in fostering a positive environment.   ***DISCLAIMER*** Be Formidable Podcast may contain personal accounts and stories that may not reflect the full picture of events.  Be Formidable Podcast recognizes that the full truth can be complex-especially when it involves personal history, and there may be other perspectives not presented here. The goal is not to take sides, but to foster honest conversations that invite reflection and demonstrate mindfulness tools, strategies, and efforts for continued growth.