Over time we stop seeing our partner as who they are today—and start reacting to old versions and old stories. In this tender episode of The Glow Up Experience, Lindsay Jacobi shares insights from a marriage retreat on impermanence, and how choosing to see the current person in front of you can instantly soften a home, rebuild connection, and reopen possibility. You’ll learn How “memory filters” make you argue with the past instead of the person present Why proactive inner work (offence) is more effective than crisis repair (defence) A gentle practice to revisit first-year curiosity, excitement, and warmth The self-regulation + honesty combo that disarms resentment and invites closeness Links & Resources Free Glow Up Bundle: https://coaching.glowupcollective.co/glow-up-edition 90-Day Private Glow Up Coaching: https://glowupcollective.co Instagram: @lindsaystewartjacobi