
Grief doesn’t always follow ownership. In this episode, I explore a type of loss that many of us experience but rarely talk about — grieving an animal who isn’t technically “ours.”
Whether it’s a barn mate, a foster, a friend’s beloved companion, or an animal you’ve shared space and connection with, these bonds can run incredibly deep. And when those animals pass away, move, or transition out of our daily lives, it can evoke complex emotions like love, loss, gratitude, and sometimes even guilt for feeling such strong emotions.
I share my own experience navigating this kind of grief through my connection with April, a horse who’s been a profound teacher and partner to me for many years. Her recent move brought forward waves of emotion that reminded me how important it is to honour our feelings fully — even when we’re not the guardian making the decisions.
This episode is an invitation to hold space for these quieter forms of grief with compassion and self-awareness. To feel what’s real, without projecting or dismissing, and to remember that our connections with animals extend far beyond physical proximity.
Because even when an animal leaves our care or our daily life, our connection remains.
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