In this powerful and deeply human conversation, survivor and advocate Nathan Spiteri reveals the uncomfortable truth behind childhood abuse, how grooming works, why most victims never speak up, and how unresolved trauma silently shapes adult lives — often leading to addiction, violence, and even suicide.
Together, we break down the real signs parents miss, the psychological traps children fall into, and why education—not silence—is the only way to protect our families. Nathan opens up about his own journey from abuse to addiction to healing, sharing the steps that helped him reclaim his power, confront triggers, forgive himself, and finally say the words that changed everything: “It wasn’t my fault.”
This episode is a must-listen for parents, teachers, caregivers, and anyone who wants to create safer homes, neighborhoods, and schools. Because saving even one child today can save generations tomorrow.
Episode Breakdown (Short Version)
00:00 mins — Why conversations on child abuse matter
00:33 mins — Early warning signs parents must notice
02:36 mins — Teaching children correct body awareness
04:07 mins — Why kids don’t speak up & how parents react
06:55 mins — Abuse within families & the role of trust
10:00 mins — Hidden male trauma & shocking statistics
12:29 mins — How childhood trauma leads to adult crises
16:18 mins — Nathan’s personal story of abuse & grooming
19:27 mins — Rock bottom, therapy & the start of healing
20:57 mins — Understanding triggers and managing them
29:55 mins — Nathan’s three key principles for healing
35:07 mins — What to do when you’re triggered and alone
44:36 mins — The growing danger of online bullying
47:22 mins — What schools and communities must do
58:24 mins — The mission: helping even one child
01:00:47 mins — Final message & how to reach out for help
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