Are you truly in love with your partner, or just the idea of who they could be? This one question can reveal the hidden truth about your relationship and unlock a deeper connection.
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It's easy to fall for someone's potential. We create a story in our minds, often fueled by unrealistic portrayals in movies and social media which can generate pressure and anxiety, trapping both you and your partner in a cycle of unmet expectations. This pattern of projection can limit growth and block the deep, authentic connection you truly desire.
❤️4 Self-Reflection Questions to Help Assess Your Relationship:
Do I feel peace around this person or pressure them to be someone else?
If you're sitting in silence together, do you feel connected or do you feel anxious?
Do I notice their authentic light or mostly their potential?
Am I attached to the projection or the idea of the person, or am I in love with who they are now?
Amber and Austin break down these four questions that can start you on your journey to find clarity, and they also share a three-step process to move from a connection based on fear to one built on abundance.
🎯 KEY EPISODE TAKEAWAYS:
🔑 THE PROJECTION TRAP [05:57]:
"When we're projecting an ideal of something onto someone else and being in love with the idea of them, then we're not giving them the opportunity to be even better than that idea of them."
This highlights a crucial mistake: by holding onto a fixed idea of who our partner should be, we prevent them - and the relationship - from growing into something even more wonderful.
THE HIDDEN LIMIT [10:23]:
"Our capacity to love ourselves inherently limits our ability to love someone else."
This is a critical realization. If you feel blocked in your relationship, the first place to look isn't at your partner, but within yourself.
💡 THE SOUL CONNECTION FORMULA [30:27]:
"When we truly love someone for who they are as they are in the present moment, then we're coming from a place of gratitude. And gratitude stems from abundance."
See how shifting from expectation to appreciation can completely transform your relationship dynamic, opening the door for genuine connection and growth.
CHAPTERS:
00:00 - Are You in Love With the Person or the Idea of Them?
02:20 - Why Falling in Love With a Story Can Hurt Real Relationships
05:28 - How Idealization Limits Growth in Love
10:08 - You Can’t Love Fully Without Loving Yourself First
12:45 - Codependency and the Search for Self Through a Partner
14:28 - 4 Self-Reflection Questions to Assess Your Relationship
15:53 - Q1: Do You Feel Peace or Pressure Around Them?
19:34 - Q2: Do You Feel Connected or Anxious in Silence?
20:56 - Q3: Do You See Their Authentic Self or Just Potential?
25:35 - Q4: Are You in Love With Who They Are or an Idea of Them?
30:50 - The 3-Step Relationship Reset: Pause, Be Present, Be Grateful
34:44 - Try the 30-Day Soul Connection Challenge
36:40 - Join the Free Relationship Evolution Community
🔗CONNECT WITH AMBER & AUSTIN:
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