Performative Masculinity: How to Spot It, Why It’s Dangerous, and What to Look for Instead

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The High Value Woman's Playbook

Amanda Carroll

161 episodes

1 week ago

Welcome to The High Value Woman’s Playbook — the no-BS podcast for successful women who are done wasting time on situationships, unavailable men, and “good on paper” guys who leave you bored out of your mind. If you’ve ever thought, “Maybe I’m too much, maybe there aren’t any good men left, maybe I should just settle…” — girl, stop lying to yourself. You’re not too much. He’s just not enough.

This season, we’re blowing up the old dating rules. No more waiting to be chosen. No more outsourcing your love life to matchmakers. No more pretending “fine” is good enough. High-value women don’t need a provider. We need a partner. And I’m giving you the exact playbook to attract one. Every week, I’ll drop savage truth bombs, scandalous stories, and the strategies that will get you into a committed, passionate, high-value relationship in 5 dates or less. Period. This is raw. This is real. This is where you stop auditioning and start doing the choosing.

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Performative Masculinity: How to Spot It, Why It’s Dangerous, and What to Look for Instead

The High Value Woman's Playbook

29 minutes

7 months ago

Performative Masculinity: How to Spot It, Why It’s Dangerous, and What to Look for Instead

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🎙 Episode Description:

We’ve all been there—drawn to the man who seems confident, dominant, and in control. But what if that “strength” is just an act? In this episode, I’m pulling back the curtain on performative masculinity—what it looks like, how it manipulates attraction, and why it leads to emotional unavailability and burnout. Here’s what we’ll cover:

What performative masculinity actually is
The 5 biggest red flags to watch for in dating
Why many women are conditioned to be attracted to it (church, dads, culture—you’ll hear it all)
What healthy masculinity looks like (and how to tell the difference)
Why performative femininity is also keeping some of us stuck—and how to stop playing a role in your own love life

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