In this deep and insightful episode of the IgnitedNeurons Podcast, host Utkarsh Narang sits down with Zoey Charif to explore one of humanity’s most timeless questions: can love, in fact, be calculated?
Together, they dive into the science, spirituality, and psychology of love, breaking down how self-love, values, and emotional alignment determine the depth and sustainability of our relationships.
Zoey shares her groundbreaking framework for assessing compatibility using a “self-score” system that measures how aligned we are with our own values before seeking love from others. The conversation moves through trust, transitions, emotional growth, and the evolving nature of long-term love, all grounded in Zoey’s belief that the work always starts with the self.
This isn’t a conversation about finding love.
It’s about becoming love through awareness, alignment, and authenticity.
The episode dives into:
– Can love be calculated through a framework?
– How self-love sustains every relationship
– Navigating life transitions with trust and optimism
– The difference between spiritual love and infatuation
– How values define compatibility
– What “feeling lucky to have yourself” really means
– Why truth always surfaces in relationships
– How to keep evolving together in long-term love
Key Takeaways:
✅ Love can, in fact, be calculated through self-awareness and clarity
✅ Self-love is the foundation of lasting relationships
✅ Transitions are not endings, they are expansions
✅ Values determine compatibility more than attraction
✅ Spiritual love transcends pop-culture romance
✅ Relationships need ongoing reflection and recalibration
✅ Feeling lucky to have yourself attracts aligned partners
✅ Infatuation fades, truth endures
✅ Growth is the most beautiful expression of love
About Zoey Charif
Zoey Charif isn’t just redefining how we think about love, she’s giving us a blueprint for it.
As the author of Love Can, In Fact, Be Calculated, Zoey has spent nearly two decades decoding the patterns of human attraction, combining her background in criminology, data analytics, and a deep curiosity for how humans connect.
Born in Afghanistan, raised in Vancouver, and now based in Orange County, California, Zoey brings emotional intelligence, analytical precision, and lived experience together in a framework that’s as practical as it is transformative.
Beyond love and relationships, she’s also the founder of Business Plans USA, helping entrepreneurs secure funding and scale with precision.
Her mission, whether in business or relationships, is simple: to turn hope into mastery and potential into reality.
📌 Connect with Zoey
🌐 Website: www.lovecaninfactbecalculated.com
📱 TikTok & Instagram: @zoeycharif
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