Most men aren't struggling because they're weak, they're struggling because they’re fake. They’ve lost their authenticity, they’ve blurred their boundaries, and they’ve traded God-given masculinity for approval, comfort, and emotional chaos.

In this episode, Jesse Carstairs breaks down why a man’s authentic identity and his boundaries are the bedrock of security, leadership, and spiritual authority. You’ll learn why children follow authentic fathers, why wives trust boundaried husbands, and why God never intended men to live in fear of rejection, conflict, or people pleasing.

We dive deep into Scripture, masculinity, psychology, and real-world examples, from Jesus calmly walking through a murderous crowd in Luke 4, to the destructive cycle of men who say ‘yes’ when they mean ‘no’, to the hidden cost of wearing masks to keep the peace.

This episode will confront you, equip you, and sharpen you into the kind of man your home, your marriage, and God Himself can trust.

If you want to become unshakeable, start here.

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