Committee meeting someone suggests family movie night. "Families love watching movies together!" I'm thinking sure sounds simple. Show movie people watch. How hard could it be?

Way harder than pressing play and hoping for best. Choosing movie that doesn't offend anyone while still entertaining basically impossible. Plus equipment and making sure little kids don't have nightmares teenagers don't die of boredom.

First attempt complete disaster. Picked movie thought was safe. Parents said too scary for preschoolers kids said too babyish. Equipment died. Half families left before movie started.

Biggest nightmare picking movie works all ages without making anyone angry. Parents have opinions about everything kids watch. Kids have opinions about cool versus lame.

Doing family survey ahead time now. Three movie options people vote. Takes pressure off me guessing what everyone wants gives families say in decision.

Last year projector decides die day of event. Families showing up with blankets expecting entertainment while I'm having panic attack about showing movie without working equipment. Tom saved day bringing laptop from work.

Fellowship hall chairs become torture devices after thirty minutes. This year encouraging families bring blankets pillows anything makes them comfortable. Different seating areas so people choose what works.

Told everyone bring own snacks first year. Chaos. Some families elaborate spread others nothing. Kids begging other people's food parents annoyed about sharing.

Church providing basic movie snacks now. Popcorn candy water bottles. Simple stuff doesn't break budget feels like real theater experience.

Two hour movie wrong cause little kids don't have attention span and parents don't want be at church till ten Friday night. Ninety minutes max with bathroom break intermission.

Marcus who usually sits alone ended up sharing popcorn made new friend. Emma's mom connected with other single parents during break.

That's when know it's working. Creates natural opportunities connect instead just consuming entertainment together.

*For anyone whose simple movie ideas became equipment nightmares, leaders discovering age-appropriate means different things to different families, people learning community happens in intermissions not just during films.
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